Marriage is good for all ladies. I know many ladies have been the greatest casualties in marriage related conflicts. Yes I know many have persevered for a long time in extremely abusive relationships. It is true many ladies hang on till the last of the last minutes. All this withstanding, I still confidently say to you; marriage is good for you. Do not allow the few bad-looking marriages to deny you the long term benefits of a good and rich marriage.
Recently I watched a very wonderful feature on the famous Tyra Banks Show. She was hosting – in my opinion – a very wonderful and incredible couple. The husband was what I would describe as a ‘heavy weight’ but the wife was a unique one. She was around three feet tall and was said to be a victim of ‘weak bones’. They had some beautiful children and appeared to be a very happy family. This lady was happy and grateful to be married. The husband brought to her life incredible joy, fulfillment, contentment and value. She can only imagine how life would be – for her – outside their warm and fulfilling companionship.
I deeply desire to have every lady convinced that marriage is one of the best things that can happen to woman’s life. Just believe you can get a good husband. Let me say this to those who are already in unpleasant marriages, you can make the husband you desire out of the man you live with. It is possible. What you need to have is the right tools to get the right results.
Marriage Is Incredible
Marriage is an exceptionally incredible institution. When my daughter was seven years old, she could tell me about her boyfriend - Joseph - who happened to be her classmate. She believes Joseph will be her husband despite the fact that he is not clear in his mind about her seriousness of their friendship. That is how incredible marriage is. Both the under aged and the aged, the rich and the poor, the weak and the strong are all giving marriage a very serious thought. The astonishing high rate of divorce is not, will not and should not be a hindrance to any individual from considering and indeed jumping into it, of course at the appropriate time.
Marriage is such an awesome idea that not many consider the many and great responsibilities associated with it before getting into it. Many married couples can not remember when they sat down to plan on how to tackle the challenges they face in their marriages today but the amazing fact is that they are able to maneuver through them all. This means that in a marriage of serious, positive and committed couple, there exists some divine power which when activated, releases sufficient energy, grace and wisdom to face and manage any sort of a crisis or conflict arising.
This being the case, then there is no cause of fear of getting into marriage. Friends, just be sincere. Whether you are single, married, separated, divorced or even windowed, there exists a desire in every sound human being to be in a long lasting and fulfilling companionship. To some, this longing is on the surface and to others, it is hidden deep. To some, it is a top priority while to others; it is just an issue to consider. Whichever way, marriage is wonderful. Go for it, stay in it – whatever applies to you.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
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