For the newly married, a few tips will help achieve your dreams. Enjoy every happy moment with your new love. Go places together, eat together, read together, pray together, plan together, play together and let everything be together and together. Share your passions, dreams and expectations with each other. Speak out about your weaknesses and also your strengths. Revisit your past and dot not get stuck there, be aware of where you are today and then you can view the future using one lens so as to consolidate your destiny. Purpose to keep your love hot, alive and vibrant all the rest of your live regardless of many challenges that you may face in the future. Share of any possible distractions towards your friendship and marriage and plan how you will deal with them in case they come.
This is one of the best moments you have, therefore, maximize on empowering each other. You are in a formative stage where you need to define the right course for your lives and relationship. See yourself living together to old age. Speak positively to one another. Keep on assuring one another that God created you in His image and meant that you will live with one another as husband and wife. Do not allow doubt about the choice you made to get married. Identify a mature married couple that you admire and request them to mentor you as you grow in your relationship. My other good advice to you is not to look at the few marriages that have not worked rather concentrated and emulate the many that are happily married.
Marriage Is Incredible
Marriage is an exceptionally incredible institution. When my daughter was seven years old, she could tell me about her boyfriend - Joseph - who happened to be her classmate. She believes Joseph will be her husband despite the fact that he is not clear in his mind about her seriousness of their friendship. That is how incredible marriage is. Both the under aged and the aged, the rich and the poor, the weak and the strong are all giving marriage a very serious thought. The astonishing high rate of divorce is not, will not and should not be a hindrance to any individual from considering and indeed jumping into it, of course at the appropriate time.
Marriage is such an awesome idea that not many consider the many and great responsibilities associated with it before getting into it. Many married couples can not remember when they sat down to plan on how to tackle the challenges they face in their marriages today but the amazing fact is that they are able to maneuver through them all. This means that in a marriage of serious, positive and committed couple, there exists some divine power which when activated, releases sufficient energy, grace and wisdom to face and manage any sort of a crisis or conflict arising.
This being the case, then there is no cause of fear of getting into marriage. Friends, just be sincere. Whether you are single, married, separated, divorced or even windowed, there exists a desire in every sound human being to be in a long lasting and fulfilling companionship. To some, this longing is on the surface and to others, it is hidden deep. To some, it is a top priority while to others; it is just an issue to consider. Whichever way, marriage is wonderful. Go for it, stay in it – whatever applies to you.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
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