Marriage Is Incredible

Marriage is an exceptionally incredible institution. When my daughter was seven years old, she could tell me about her boyfriend - Joseph - who happened to be her classmate. She believes Joseph will be her husband despite the fact that he is not clear in his mind about her seriousness of their friendship. That is how incredible marriage is. Both the under aged and the aged, the rich and the poor, the weak and the strong are all giving marriage a very serious thought. The astonishing high rate of divorce is not, will not and should not be a hindrance to any individual from considering and indeed jumping into it, of course at the appropriate time.

Marriage is such an awesome idea that not many consider the many and great responsibilities associated with it before getting into it. Many married couples can not remember when they sat down to plan on how to tackle the challenges they face in their marriages today but the amazing fact is that they are able to maneuver through them all. This means that in a marriage of serious, positive and committed couple, there exists some divine power which when activated, releases sufficient energy, grace and wisdom to face and manage any sort of a crisis or conflict arising.

This being the case, then there is no cause of fear of getting into marriage. Friends, just be sincere. Whether you are single, married, separated, divorced or even windowed, there exists a desire in every sound human being to be in a long lasting and fulfilling companionship. To some, this longing is on the surface and to others, it is hidden deep. To some, it is a top priority while to others; it is just an issue to consider. Whichever way, marriage is wonderful. Go for it, stay in it – whatever applies to you.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Speak About Your Good Marriage

Are you experiencing joy and happiness in your marriage? Then speak about it. Several things will happen to your relationship when you share with others. One of the good things is that the goodness you experience will be multiplied. Here we are applying the principle of sowing and reaping. Whatever positive contribution you make towards other people's lives will eventually return to you in a greater measure. When your motivation is to see the success of others, I assure you today that your success will be multiplied.

Many marriages are troubled to the extent that the victims have resigned to fate, concluding that it can never work. This is why I encourage you to speak out about your successful marriage. Share your wisdom and experience with others. Propagate this truth; that marriage is one of the best things that can happen to any man or a woman in this life.

Identify marriages that are going through crisis and speak to them. I know your success in marriage is not automatic. There are couples that have contributed to your success. You have observed, admired and imitated good marriages for you to be happy. Do not take it for granted. As you have been helped, help others also.

Let me note that in the process of your well intended gestures, you will face a few situations that will suggest what you are doing does not make sense or a difference. Kindly ignore such opinions and continue with the good work. Do not succumb to discouragement. Be committed to the welfare of others. Freely you have received, therefore, give freely.

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  1. Pearly CraigDecember 5, 2012 at 6:27 AM

    Never miss a day complementing each other, that is the best thing a married couple can do to each other.
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